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  • Embracing Your Desires & the Unapologetic Sexuality

    Some of the most rewarding moments from my work with Back to the Body are when women truly embrace not only their desires, but also their own power to ask for those desires and seek them out. It’s an embracing of who they are that stands in defiance to lifelong lessons that their wants and needs matter less. Pam, of the blog Down to There, recently wrote an amazing post about her perspectives on the Back to the Body experience that perfectly addresses this concept of Unapologetic Sexuality and the power of speaking your thoughts. Speaking your mind also means

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  • Bringing Sex Coaching to China

    I’m breaking into the Chinese market! Goddess Temple has done a really fun piece with me for their readers (article is in Chinese). Because such a big part of my own sexual journey involved overcoming stereotypes directed towards Asian men, I always love an opportunity to reach this audience. They’ve already gotten a lot of feedback from their readers about what skills they’d like to learn from me, so I’ll be creating more content with them in the future!

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  • How Do I Get My Girlfriend To Do Anal?

    Time Out New York just featured me and some other awesome sex-positive people in New York City for our work! I talk a bit about my Squirting PlayLab What’s the most in-demand class you teach? The most popular one I host focuses on female ejaculation. It sells out every time. It’s kind of fascinating to see a room full of strangers practicing this technique together. A lot of times, one person will orgasm, and then the rest of the group will follow. It just turns into a chorus of moans. If you’ve never been to one of my live events,

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  • Is Your Penis Good Enough?

    The Post just released this interview with me about my top 5 sex hacks for loving the penis you have!   This interview was challenging, because the Post kept pushing towards this narrative that your cock is not big enough, so here are some pro-tips on how to compensate for your average-sized cock. And the message that I want to tell people is that there’s no need to compensate! You are not sexually broken. You are good enough. Love the penis you have. The myth that bigger is better costs countless men sexual self-confidence and self-esteem. Here’s some research my

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  • What’s Your Love(making) Language?

    In my work as a sex coach, I’ve found that a lot of people struggle to figure out what they want. They have no frame of reference to even begin answering that question. There are so many options when it comes to sex, it can be hard to pinpoint what exactly appeals to you. So that’s why I was so excited when I found the Erotic Blueprints framework, designed by my sex educator role model, Miss Jaiya. I met Jaiya at the Back to the Body retreat. I love her work. She is one of the most successful sex educators

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  • Pussy Mapping and Sex Coaching (Fatherly.com)

    Blown away by this piece on my coaching for Fatherly! I couldn’t have said it better myself. I really love working with couples, and it’s amazing to see some of the essence of that captured here. People in the media often wonder why a couple would ever see a sex coach. I think this piece does a good job of diving into that: “If people have been together for a really long time, they kind of merge their sexuality together,” says Play. “I try to find compatibility based on what they share as individuals.” Check out the whole article here!

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  • Coaching Virgins Before Their First Time, Part 1

    I’m really excited that I had the honor to coach someone before his first time having PiV with his girlfriend! Because he is a teenager and couldn’t afford my rates, I took him on as a client pro-bono. This was a really rewarding experience for me, and I asked him if he’d let me share this story so that we could share what we learned with anyone else in the same situation. This client (I’ll call him “Charles”) had been following my work for a while, doing his research on how to pleasure his girlfriend. When he reached out to

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  • Disrupting Sex Education

    Whoa. It was amazing to watch this clip of The View talking about my sex coaching, and to hear Ken Jeong mention me by name! But one thing that the segment made clear to me: There’s a huge difference between what people think I do and what I actually do. Sex education in American schools is lacking compared to other developed countries. Debates about comprehensive sex ed versus abstinence-only sex ed have been raging, despite the fact that most studies agree that abstinence-only sex education has not been effective in preventing teen pregnancy. Even more frighteningly, only 13 states require that sex education

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  • Authentic AF Sex Coaching

    Whoa, check out this amazing piece from Elite Daily about sex coaching featuring my business partner, Dr. Zhana, and me! For a lot of people, talking about sex is challenging.  Even the most sex-positive, open people can have trouble feeling comfortable talking about sex.  My goal as a sex coach is to encourage clients to be as authentic and honest as possible.  This allows me to diagnose the challenge they’re facing, or help them explore hidden curiosities, from female ejaculation to sex parties to bondage. Partnering with Dr. Zhana has allowed us to take her knowledge of the latest science

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  • What Does a Sex Coach REALLY Do?

    If you’re struggling with fitness, there’s tons of ways to get better.  You can Google fitness tips, read a fitness book, or talk to a fitness coach at a nearby gym.  No matter who you are, info about fitness is very accessible.  I was a fitness coach for 15 years, and I saw how that level of accessibility made a difference in my clients’ lives.  Specifically, the amount of guidance offered by a coach is really helpful. In sex education, that individualized coaching is not nearly as accessible, but it is still every bit as useful as it is in fitness.

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