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  • Your Sexual Freedom is at Risk

    My Business Partner Dr.Zhana and I been working on this post. SESTA (Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act) and FOSTA (Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act) are two bills that were recently passed by Congress and signed into legislation by President Trump. What they essentially do is make it easier for victims and prosecutors to sue websites that knowingly “assist, facilitate, or support sex trafficking” by holding them legally accountable for any of the paid-for sexual exchanges that take place offline. As a response to the passing of these laws, many popular websites for finding paid or/and unpaid sexual services have shut down

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  • The Best Sex Scenes in Movies

    I was thrilled when Olivia Collette reached out to me to comment for this piece for RogerEbert.com about how to make sex scenes that women will like watching. This topic is so important to me, and I love reading what other people in the industry think about this issue, too! When it comes down to it, a lot of media portrayals on sex do not focus on female pleasure. We rarely see stimulation of the clitoris. Consent and safer sex practices aren’t often shown. Women are almost never the initiators of sex. And, as much as I want to see

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  • Post-Sex Hacks You Don’t Want To Skip

    I’m loving this article on Vice I was quoted in about how the concept of aftercare applies to vanilla sex as much as it applies to kink scenes! For those who might not know, aftercare is an essential practice for the kink community to help facilitate a “soft landing” after an intense sexual experience. People have different needs sexually, and that extends into what people want from aftercare. I find that the easiest and most direct way is to ask straight out. I usually say something like, “what do you need and enjoy after sex?” It’s really important to me

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  • Bringing Sex Coaching to China

    I’m breaking into the Chinese market! Goddess Temple has done a really fun piece with me for their readers (article is in Chinese). Because such a big part of my own sexual journey involved overcoming stereotypes directed towards Asian men, I always love an opportunity to reach this audience. They’ve already gotten a lot of feedback from their readers about what skills they’d like to learn from me, so I’ll be creating more content with them in the future!

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  • Unraveling Female Promiscuity

    I was honored to join Wednesday Martin, PhD (author of the upcoming Untrue, on female lust and infidelity)  and MacKenzie Peck (Feminist Pornographer, Math Magazine) on the Future of Sex podcast, talking all about female promiscuity. This two-part podcast touches on so many topics that I love to geek out about. One of my favorite moments is when we talk about sociosexual orientation, which is essentially the spectrum of how easily you’re aroused by new people. I explain the three facets that my business partner, Dr. Zhana, has studied: How well do you need to know them? How much emotional connection do you

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  • How Do I Get My Girlfriend To Do Anal?

    Time Out New York just featured me and some other awesome sex-positive people in New York City for our work! I talk a bit about my Squirting PlayLab What’s the most in-demand class you teach? The most popular one I host focuses on female ejaculation. It sells out every time. It’s kind of fascinating to see a room full of strangers practicing this technique together. A lot of times, one person will orgasm, and then the rest of the group will follow. It just turns into a chorus of moans. If you’ve never been to one of my live events,

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  • Pussy Mapping and Sex Coaching (Fatherly.com)

    Blown away by this piece on my coaching for Fatherly! I couldn’t have said it better myself. I really love working with couples, and it’s amazing to see some of the essence of that captured here. People in the media often wonder why a couple would ever see a sex coach. I think this piece does a good job of diving into that: “If people have been together for a really long time, they kind of merge their sexuality together,” says Play. “I try to find compatibility based on what they share as individuals.” Check out the whole article here!

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  • Supporting Women of Sex Tech (New York Times)

    The New York Times published this amazing piece on New York women who are making waves in the sex tech industry. What an honor to be an ally and support these awesome women! I’ve had amazing opportunities to work with a lot of the women mentioned in this piece. This summer, I was on one of Future of Sex‘s panels. I’ve partnered with Unbound (use code “PLAY” for 10% off your first purchase) to curate custom boxes, and they’ve donated products to some of our events. Recently, I stepped into the role of sex tech consultant for Dame Products, where I

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  • My Sex Life is Spread All Over the NY Post!

    There’s nothing like waking up on a Sunday morning to see your sex life spread in a print newspaper! So I dropped everything (pants included) to share this exciting piece from the NY Post about Hacienda! As you probably know, Hacienda Villa is the sex-positive intentional community that I co-founded and live in. It was fantastic to do this feature with the NY Post that allowed us to be ourselves! I’ve been open about my lifestyle with all of you on here, but it’s not every day that I get to share a hugely important part of my life: sex-positive

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