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  • Hacienda featured on The Love Drive!

    My colleague and amazing friend Lila, of horizontal with Lila, recently was a guest on The Love Drive Show to talk about intentional communities, sex parties, and non-monogamy — and she gave a shout out to my work too! Sex parties and the sex positive community can be somewhat intimidating when you first decide to immerse yourself in it. But as Lila explains, a lot of it is about finding the place and the people that feel good and safe for you, and also learning to be intentional and open. Lila also talks about navigating nonmonogamy and sexual desires in

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  • Post-Sex Hacks You Don’t Want To Skip

    I’m loving this article on Vice I was quoted in about how the concept of aftercare applies to vanilla sex as much as it applies to kink scenes! For those who might not know, aftercare is an essential practice for the kink community to help facilitate a “soft landing” after an intense sexual experience. People have different needs sexually, and that extends into what people want from aftercare. I find that the easiest and most direct way is to ask straight out. I usually say something like, “what do you need and enjoy after sex?” It’s really important to me

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  • Unraveling Female Promiscuity

    I was honored to join Wednesday Martin, PhD (author of the upcoming Untrue, on female lust and infidelity)  and MacKenzie Peck (Feminist Pornographer, Math Magazine) on the Future of Sex podcast, talking all about female promiscuity. This two-part podcast touches on so many topics that I love to geek out about. One of my favorite moments is when we talk about sociosexual orientation, which is essentially the spectrum of how easily you’re aroused by new people. I explain the three facets that my business partner, Dr. Zhana, has studied: How well do you need to know them? How much emotional connection do you

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  • Is Your Penis Good Enough?

    The Post just released this interview with me about my top 5 sex hacks for loving the penis you have!   This interview was challenging, because the Post kept pushing towards this narrative that your cock is not big enough, so here are some pro-tips on how to compensate for your average-sized cock. And the message that I want to tell people is that there’s no need to compensate! You are not sexually broken. You are good enough. Love the penis you have. The myth that bigger is better costs countless men sexual self-confidence and self-esteem. Here’s some research my

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  • Fighting for Sexual Freedom 2017

    What a week Dr. Zhana and I had participating at Naughty in Nawlins with over 2,000 attendees! Looking back on one of our favorite events of the week, the Sexual Freedom March, we were reminded of the progress made for LGBTQIA rights. 10 years ago, we couldn’t imagine one of the most powerful corporations in the world, like Apple, having an openly gay CEO. While it’s not a perfect analogy, we’re excited to see polyamorous and kinky communities striving for some of the same rights that LGBTQIA communities worked so hard to achieve. Diana Adams Law is an organization we admire that is

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  • The Consequences of Female Promiscuity

    I was so honored to be asked to be a panelist for Future of Sex’s recent Summer Series Event. Unraveling Female Promiscuity. If you weren’t able to be there in person, I wanted to share some of my thoughts on how female promiscuity and sex hacking go hand-in-hand to make an exciting, sexy vision of our future. (And the podcast of the panel will be out soon, so keep an eye out!) We’ve all heard it a million times: Men are “only after one thing”. They can’t control themselves. “Boys will be boys.” We have this presumption that men want

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  • What Goes On At A Sex House: My Podcast Interview with Dr. Jess!

    Toronto’s Dr. Jess interviewed me on her on her Sex with Dr. Jess podcast! We talked about what goes down at the Hacienda Villa, the sex-positive intentional community I co-founded. Dr. Zhana joined me to share a Sex Hack on dealing with last minute date cancellations! Check out the podcast here: What Goes On At A Sex House: Kenneth Play on Sex with Dr. Jess  

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  • Authentic AF Sex Coaching

    Whoa, check out this amazing piece from Elite Daily about sex coaching featuring my business partner, Dr. Zhana, and me! For a lot of people, talking about sex is challenging.  Even the most sex-positive, open people can have trouble feeling comfortable talking about sex.  My goal as a sex coach is to encourage clients to be as authentic and honest as possible.  This allows me to diagnose the challenge they’re facing, or help them explore hidden curiosities, from female ejaculation to sex parties to bondage. Partnering with Dr. Zhana has allowed us to take her knowledge of the latest science

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  • What’s More Important to You: Love or Lust? by Dr. Zhana

    Check out this post by my business partner, Dr. Zhana! We know, it’s not an entirely fair question–what if both are really important to you?–but let’s say you had to choose one. Which one would it be? Valentine’s Day is here, and with it comes a multitude of messages to buy chocolates, flowers, expensive dinners and other aphrodisiacs to spread the love, or get you in a lustful mood. From heartfelt cards to heart-shaped vibrators to completely ignoring what many consider a Hallmark holiday, there isn’t a wrong way to do Valentine’s Day. But whatever you decide to do, it’s

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  • What I keep in my Sex Party Go-Bag!

    Cosmopolitan interviewed me and some other Sex Party Pros to find out what kinds of things we keep in our “Go-Bag” when we’re headed out! I laid out all my must have toys, safer sex supplies, and the other pro items I always want to have on hand at a Play Party. There are some great ideas for putting together your own bag, and be sure to check out what the others had to share. Many of the items allow you to click through and purchase online to be added to your sexy suitcase! Read the whole article here: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a6805477/sex-party-regular-go-bags/ Clockwise

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