About – Kenneth Play: HACK YOUR SEX LIFE

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A Quick Bio

Kenneth Play an international sex hacking expert/educator, former top fitness professional, and private celebrity fitness and sex-ed coach. As a sex hacker, He develops and teaches hacks to help people learn new ways to play and overcome challenges in the bedroom. With his accelerated learning approach and playful teaching style, he helps people gain sexual confidence, experience more pleasure, and cultivate deeper intimacy in record time. His teaching style has been described as a combination of Tim Ferriss, Martha Stewart, and Bruce Lee. He co-founded the globally-recognized intentional sex-positive community, Hacienda Villa; he teamed up with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova to work on The Casual Sex Project; he’s been a featured presenter for the Sexual Health Expo (SHE) and New York University; and his projects have been featured in GQ, Vice, Elite DailyThrillist, Refinery 29Playboyand Cosmopolitan.  He has devoted his life to empowering people through sex education, radical sexual self-expression, and community building. His mission is to bring hands-on sex education accessible to a mainstream audience. Find Kenneth as @KennethPlay on PornhubTwitterFacebook, or Instagram.

My Story

I often fantasize about traveling back in time to tell my fifteen-year-old self about my life as it is now. That horny, skinny kid was racked by all the normal insecurities teenagers feel about their bodies and themselves. But he was also a recent immigrant from Hong Kong trying to master English and find his way in a society where Asian men seemed to be sexually invisible or worse, saddled with negative stereotypes. Through porn and other societal conditioning, I was hoodwinked into believing that my average-sized penis was somehow inadequate.    

 

“Through porn and other societal conditioning, I was hoodwinked into believing that my average-sized penis was somehow inadequate.”

 

I like to think about the look on my younger self’s face when I tell him that he will one day earn a living as a sex educator and that the knowledge he will impart will be drawn from a wealth of rich, explorative, informative and life-affirming sexual experience.

The fifteen-year-old me would look back at me in slack-jawed disbelief but in fact he was then just months away from taking the first step towards this incredibly exciting, rewarding, life-affirming vocation.  

See, when I was sixteen, I decided to get fit. I adopted a nerdy, collaborative and bootstrapping strategy in the aim of transforming my physique.  I read everything I could on the subject, consulted with experts, and used myself as a human guinea pig — discovering the techniques that yielded the best results firsthand.   

With this “life-hacking” strategy, my goal was to develop creative and effective ways to manage my time and energy for the highest gains, always trying to figure out what the “minimum effective dose” was.  I achieved my fitness goals then surpassed them. Ultimately, I lost enough fat and gained enough muscle to become a physique competitor.  And because the models I developed could be used by other people, I was fairly easy for me to transition into getting others towards their goals in the guise of a personal trainer and fitness professional.

 

With this “life-hacking” strategy, my goal was to develop creative and effective ways to manage my time and energy for the highest gains, always seeking for the “minimum effective dose.”

 

But although I was in shape, I was still deeply insecure and quite clueless about sex and dating. I’d thought that having  great physique would be the answer but I was wrong. It didn’t get me much closer to the sex life, the love life I yearned for.

The better part of a decade passed before my sex hacking journey got underway. I was in my late 20s and although I was a lover of novelty, had been a serial monogamist ever since losing my virginity some eight years before. Then, I was ushered into the sex-positive community by a girlfriend and discovered a world of endless sexual possibilities. Very quickly, my sexual palate was expanded beyond my wildest dreams. This was the world in which I wanted to live but in order to feel like I belonged there, I knew I had some catching up to do.  

Naturally, I  applied the same hacking techniques from my fitness success to my sex life, using self-experimentation to sift through the best sex hacks and pleasure-giving techniques. Finding myself in the sex positive community meant that I had the unique opportunity to learn from master sex educators, sex workers, and sex party veterans. Quickly, I developed a collection of the most effective techniques and sexual practices and as my competency grew, so did my confidence. Feeling good about my ability to make others feel good was the key to the sex life I’d fantasized about. I soon realized that, as with fitness, I could share information that would help others to become more confident and competent sex partners. I put myself on that path.

 

I applied the same hacking techniques from my fitness success to my sex life.

 

I’ve been busy in the five or six years since then;  I co-founded the globally-recognized intentional sex-positive community, Hacienda Villa; I teamed up with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova to work on The Casual Sex Project; I’ve been a featured presenter for the Sexual Health Expo (SHE) and New York University; and my projects have been featured in Playboy, New York Magazine, The Huffington PostMen’s Health, Women’s Health, and Cosmopolitan. I continue to study new insights and perspectives on sex, from tantra to kink to peer-reviewed research from some of the world’s most renowned institutions. I travel all over the world sharing what I’ve learned  at retreats, events, and conferences. My teaching style is perhaps best described as a combination of Tim Ferriss, Martha Stewart, and Bruce Lee.

I am passionate about sharing the best of what I’ve learned and helping people discover new ways to play. I want to help people experience pleasure they didn’t even know was possible. I tell them what would say to my younger self: that being an outstanding lover is a skill that can be learned, that sexual insecurities can be overcome and that perceived weaknesses can be turned into incredible strengths.

 

Being an outstanding lover is a skill that can be learned, that sexual insecurities can be overcome and that perceived weaknesses can be turned into incredible strengths.

I want to thank you for visiting me here, for supporting my work and helping me to bring sex education out of the darkness and into the light.

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Squirting PlayLab with Kenneth Play! 6/23 (Pay What You Can)

June 23, 2017, 7:30pm - June 23, 2017, 10:30pm

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Ever wondered about the elusive world of female ejaculation (squirting)? Join Kenneth Play in this clothing-optional, interactive PlayLab to learn the pro hacks, simple techniques, and toys you need for squirting. Watch a live technique demonstration as seen on Kenneth’s video featured on Playboy TV. You’ll get the opportunity to practice these techniques live while Kenneth helps you perfect your skills in person, much like a personal trainer helps to align the body to get the most out of an exercise. Master G-Spot Sex Hacking techniques to minimize effort and maximize pleasure by lining up the body in the most most biomechanically-optimal positions. Learn to use his favorite G-Spot toy to keeping her “coming” back for more! Build your confidence and “wow” your lover!

Kenneth’s business partner, Dr. Zhana, has sifted through all the research on female ejaculation, so Kenneth will be answering questions you’ve always wondered about, like:
Can every woman squirt?
Is squirting pee?
Is squirting the “Holy Grail” of female orgasms?

"I've personally witnessed Kenneth transform a room full of non-squirting women into squirters and their partners into female-ejaculation facilitators at one of his 'PlayLabs,' a group sex ed event he hosts every month or so. That particular scene became a fleshy, moaning, groaning, dancing fountain with people literally, then figuratively, gushing over the 'sex hacks' the former fitness competitor imparted."
- Grant Stoddard, Vice.com

"Play demonstrates everything from finding the G spot to making a woman squirt. But this goes beyond your classic condom-and-banana demonstration, a grainy 1970s educational video, or a PowerPoint presentation. Play prefers to use actual vaginas to paint his picture, adding a whole new meaning to the term 'hands-on learning.'"
- Megan Drillinger, Thrillist.com

"With humility, humor, science, fun visuals and charm, Play brings a treatment to this topic that’s as entertaining as it is edifying." - Daniel Kreiger, Narrative.ly

In this PlayLab, we’ll cover:
– female anatomy
– debunking myths about squirting (is it pee?)
– how to develop an internal GPS to locate the G-spot
– optimized biomechanics (less work, more pleasure)
– must-have toys for squirting
– finding the perfect balance of friction, pressure, and speed
– how to make a huge mess without ruining your mattress

Doors open: 7:00pm
Doors close: 7:45pm*
PlayLab: 7:30-10:30pm
Social/Open Play: 10:30-11:30pm

*Please be mindful of the door closing time. We close the doors at this time in order to preserve the safety of the container we’re creating, and late arrivals are very disruptive to the flow of class.

Note: My goal is to make sex ed as accessible as porn. To that end, I often broadcast my PlayLabs, while keeping the attendees anonymous.

One volunteer couple is needed to help event preparation and cleanup (approximately one hour before doors open and up to one hour after event). Please email kaia@kennethplay.com if you’d like to help us out!

Snacks and drinks will be provided, BYOB (more sober, more fun). This event will be hosted at the sex-positive intentional community, Hacienda Villa, in Bushwick, Brooklyn. Address will be given upon ticket reservation.

The PlayLab has three parts: a TedTalk-style presentation, a live demo (explicit), and a clothing-optional practice session with your partner.

The PlayLab is partner-oriented class, so bring at least one date (or lover, spouse, or friend). If you’d like to learn the skills solo, you can attend Part I and Part II of this PlayLab.

Space is limited to 30 people. This event tends to sell out, so book your spots today! Please bring a towel, your favorite toys, lube, and safer sex supplies. Clothing-optional.

This class is not your typical sex ed class; it’s a PlayLab. A PlayLab is a progressive live-action sex education experience designed for skill retention. Kenneth utilizes the experiential learning model based on three key ingredients: concept explanation, demonstration, and practice. PlayLabs are not sit-down lectures. He’ll teach you the concepts using audio and visual aides, demonstrate the techniques live, and you get the unique opportunity to practice on the spot as he gives you feedback. This practice and feedback loop is key to learning and remembering new sex hacks, as we learn best by playing. Participation is, of course, not mandatory, but highly encouraged to get the most out of the PlayLab.

Consent and Safety:

This is a clothing/participation-optional event where the majority of attendees will choose to be nude while participating in the exercises. Self-care and consent are of the utmost importance, so you won’t be asked to do anything without your enthusiastic consent. You will not be peer-pressured to participate and you won’t offend anyone by leaving at any time. If any concerns come up during class, Kenneth will be there to support you and your needs. #enthusiasticconsent #ifitsnotahellyesitsahellno

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Refund policy:

Our goal is to make hands-on adult sex education accessible to everyone! If you need to cancel your reservation, you have the following options:

Transfer it to a friend! Email kaia@kennethplay.com with the new attendee’s info.
If you’re cancelling 48 hours or more in advance, use Eventbrite’s “request a refund” feature, and we will honor your refund.
If you are cancelling less than 48 hours in advance, we are unable to process a refund, but we would love to have you at a future event for a $1 donation. Email kaia@kennethplay.com if this is the case so that we know who to expect at the event. ... See MoreSee Less

Squirting PlayLab with Kenneth Play! 6/23 (Pay What You Can)

June 23, 2017, 7:30pm - June 23, 2017, 10:30pm

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